Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Merry Christmas - I'm Going to Catch Up!

Oh wow it's been a while since I mommy blogged. My business completely took off during the fall and holidays and any extra time for me was spent working on photography. However, I have earned some time off and have the next two weeks to devote to my family, my home and me! Jarred even bought me a day at the spa which will be used quite soon - once mommy's day out starts back.



So Julia has been growing so much. It's hard to believe that now she is saying words and making real connections. For instance I can tell her to put something in the trash and she will gladly take it. Crazy! With the arrival of the holiday I wanted to create some portrait gifts for the grandparents and that is when I realized wow how much changes in a year. Julia has went from sitting in a Bumbo to running after her Daddy and climbing on anything and everything just because she's a daredevil. So with the coming of the new year I will be making a lot of changes - slowing down in my photography a bit - so I can get back to making more time for Julia and my growing family. So anyways, I'm trying to get all of my 2010 loose ends tied up so I can enjoy my two weeks away from the world of photography. Here's a few Christmas images and see ya in 2011!

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

I'm a No Good Terrible Mommy Blogger

Oh wow how life has been a whirlwind lately and I think I forgot to do some mommy blogging. We bought a house, renovated a house and have now moved 90% of our stuff into that house. Oh and my photography business blew up and Julia turned into this full throttle at all times little girl who keeps me on my toes...So as I'm typing this I find myself thinking about the 20, 000 other things I need to do right now but then guilty that I'm not preserving each detail of Julia's little life. Oh will I regret becoming a WAHM or will I be thankful that I didn't give up a career? I mean I'm mommy almost all the time with only 8 hours a week not while she's at MDO but when I see a kid younger than her know "bird" and she hasn't a clue I start to rethink this decision. She is a bright little girl and has a stubborn streak a mile long. I know she will do great things in life because she just has that personality. She gets the attention of everyone the minute she enters a room and people just adore her. She's one and can control a room. She's beyond social and loves everyone (thank goodness the seperation anxiety has passed). Anywho, maybe after the next few months I will get back on board with blogging when business has slowed back down.

Thursday, October 14, 2010

The Greatest Gift

So tonight at dinner I as I was wrestling Julia (she wanted to run wild throught PF Changs) and trying to feed her ice cream I overheard the conversation of the man next to me. He was talking about how his wife had no desire to have kids because it would interrupt her writing career. I thought to myself "how sad". I know everyone is different and has different ambitions in life. Some women want to rule the world and some want to rule the kitchen...to each their own. However, I just hurt for this woman that I didn't know. I hurt for her because she would never know the truest love one can know - a love for your child.  I mean, my life didn't really begin until wild woman came along and I love my husband but the love I have for Julia is stronger that I ever imagined love could be. I know everyone in this world wasn't as broken as I was  but sweet Julia fixed me...she showed me how bright the sun can shine and to take risks because the reward can be so sweet. She helped me find my center (eventhough I'm like a top and tip over often) and she continues to help me discover so many facets of myself I never even knew existed. Yes my life has changed. I walked around Target today with ground in goldfish on my shoulder and pants that I had to keep pulling up b/c I haven't had time to do MY laundry. Yes when I had my pants hemmed today they were hemmed to flat shoes and not high heels like pre-Julia me would do. Yes I have had to give up and change so many things in my life and put some things on hold but at the same token I've discovered and gained more than I could ever ask for. For one - my feet no longer hurt at the end of the day from wearing high heels:-) No but on a more serious note I found a passion that I can use to help support my family because of her. I've gained a true sense of who I really am and my life's purpose...I found my own sense of who I truely am thanks to her. I don't have time to worry about who I'm impressing - I do things for me - for her - for my family now. That's what's important. I didn't think like that before Julia. So maybe this woman that I don't even know knows exactly who she is and what she wants in life (man she's lucky - took having a baby to find it for me) and that is great but at the same time she will never know that intoxicating feeling you get from your baby giggling at your silly faces or running to you when you pick them up. She will never know the pride that one feels when their little one meets a milestone or says what sounds like "thank you" when you hand them their sippy cup. I am just so blessed beyond measure and I would have never knows that without the entrance of my lil' pumpkin. So I've rambled but I just wanted to let this out and so one day when Julia reads this she will know exactly what she means to me and think twice about never wanting children. They are the greatest gift we will ever receive.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Hurricane Julia

So a Hurricane Julia is stirring out in the Atlantic. So I thought why not blog about my own Hurricane Julia.

Lots of changes have went on with her since I last blogged. Last week she started Mother's Day Out. That has been stressful on both of us. She is having some serious seperation anxiety issues and it's breaking my heart. Today was a little bit better but she is definately not being as receptive as everyone thought she would be. I mean, she's a social butterfly, more curious than George himself and I can't keep up with her at Gymboree...but I guess when I'm not around she's having some issues of feeling safety maybe? It is breaking my heart but hopefully she will feel safe and comfortable over the next few weeks.

She is starting to do more things that really make me realize she's getting it. She mumbles "thank you" if you give her something, will pick up her shoes and put them at the bottom of the stairs with the rest of the shoes, puts her sippy cups in the cabinet....lots of little things.

Ya know motherhood is such a rollercoaster of ups and downs. After leaving MDO heartbroken inside and feeling like Julia is  missing the curve when it comes to becoming part of a structured environment, she comes home and shows me she gets life and how things work and that she is on top of the game BUT maybe just doesn't want to be trapped in or restrained maybe? Maybe I should start looking at Montossori schools as opposed to the traditional? Maybe she gets the vibe that her teachers aren't as laid back as her momma (Yes I am so laid back when it comes back to mommyhood).

Ok, Julia's up, blogging time is up.

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Julia is 13 months!

So I've been a crappy mommy blogger. With my business just exploding the last month I have found little time to actually sit in front of the computer and type up an entry. I'm so busy editing, emailing clients, researching photography so I can make this a successful business that this little blog got lost. So here I am taking five minutes today that Julia will appreciate so much when she's older.

She is a firecracker, wild woman, crazy girl, little pumpkin, chuncker-muncker, sweet baby...these are the names I find myself calling her throughout the day. They describe her perfectly. Yesterday while shopping at Gymboree (that store is dangerous for me financially) Julia started to shoot out the door. I was THAT mom chasing down my toddler before she ran free into the mall. She is silly, laughs so much, rarely gets upset, a picky eater, center of attention lover, a friend to everyone, loves animals, loves everyone....she is a unique and special little girl that lights up my life and I think safe to say so many others who path she crosses throughout the day.

What She's Doing Now:
Walking...make that starting to run
Can put things in container, nest cups perfectly
Puts lids on things...and takes them off (managed to take top off shampoo bottle)
Hugs and kisses kids she meets
Copying what people do
Repeating words (says dog, bath, ball)
Shakes head no and means it
Enjoys feeds herself
Independent
Sleeping in our bed (don't judge)
Two naps a day
Drinking whole milk
Go down stairs backwards
Likes to take walks
Dances (shakeshake)
Still loves YoGabbagabba

It is absolutely amazing to watch her figure the world out. She starts Mother's Day Out next week and I just know my independent little wild woman will do well there and love it. It's so crazy to think that this time last year she was only a month old and still just a baby that needed me for everything. Now she's the little girl with a firecracker personality that can feed herself and put away toys. Wow what a year can bring. Life is beautiful.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Julia is ONE YEAR!

I can't believe I survived! It's insane to think that a year ago today I was bringing little Julia home and had not a clue as to what was ahead of me. This past year I have experienced so much more than I ever could have imagined and this little girl has changed my life in so many ways. She has helped me find my true self and allowed me to become the woman I always wanted to be.

Julia is such a free-spirited little girl. She keeps you guessing and she keeps you laughing. Not a serious bone in her body. She can be pretty laid back about things (gets it from her Daddy) but when she wants something she wants it (that comes from me). She loves people and animals and throws herself into situations without any hesitation. She's outgoing and loud! She wants the world's attention. She loves laughing and opens her mouth wide when she's happy...sometimes a loud yell follows but it's her happy sound. She is definately a wild little one year old ready to take on the toddler world.

What She's Doing Now:
walking unassisted
drinking from a sippy cup
drinking whole milk (started it when she turned 1)
can feed herself from a container using hands
puts blocks and other items in containers
shows affection towards Baby and other favorite animals
eats adult food - no more baby food
anticipates certain events
Favorite Show - YoGabbaGabba
dances
understands how toys work - cause and effect
says mama, dada, ball, all done
copies words and phrases
has 4 full teeth and 2 about to break through
pushes her stroller
can get down off bed and sofa
can climb up stairs and come down backwards
climbs everything

Her 1 Year Pics with Lambie!
Pushing Baby at the beach...she even gave Baby a bottle.
No fear...let the waves crash on!
Such a beauty...and look at those chompers!

1 Year Old!

Sunday, July 25, 2010

First Family Vacation - Seaside Florida

So the week finally arrived ...and has now become an important part of our family history. I guess I could blog in detail about everything we did from Julia's first trip to the beach, to the restaurants, shopping, mid-day margaritas but instead I'm going to blog about what family vacation taught me. Yes, I learned so much about Julia and our amazing family in our six days at the beach.

1. WHO CARES WHAT ALL OF THE BABY BOOKS SAY ABOUT SLEEP AND NAPPING!
Julia has been a crib sleeper since she was 6 months old. Prior to that she was a co-sleeper baby. She takes naps in her cribs and moms are jealous when I disappear for 5 minutes and return with no baby. However, this week we only had the pack and play and Julia is too wild to leave her on a bed unattended so the solution to our problem was daddy's chest...99% of her naps were taken here and about 75% of them began and ended in the same place. Now I will probably find myself a slave to them again when she isn't sleeping at all but for now if she wants to snuggle on daddy and nap on his chest then go ahead. I mean before we know it she will be too cool to snuggle.

2. JULIA IS DADDY'S LITTLE GIRL & HE IS AN AMAZING DADDY.
If the previous picture didn't give it away well here is another one that is proof. Watching Jarred with Julia just fills me in a way I can not describe. I wonder if he feels the same watching me. It's just a love that radiates from him. Yes there are days that I want to throw his computer out the window b/c he isn't giving her full on attention but then this week he was just all about her. I think he probably fell in love with her over and over again. I spend everyday with her and see her do all the silly and wild things she does but this week he finally got to . She's an amazing and unique little girl and I think she has touched his heart in a way that has changed his soul.


3. I'M GETTING MY SEXY BACK...OH AND MY HUSBAND IS UBER WONDERFUL!
Yes it's been a long time but thanks to a fabulous dress shop called Deja-Vu located in the center of Seaside I felt like more than a frumpy mom in my khaki's and v-neck. Maybe I'm not back to prepreggo weight but I'm happy and don't obsess over it. I can flatter this momma body without binkins and super tight dresses. this also reaffirmed that I have an amazing and patient husband who wants me to be happy that he would sit for an hour surrounded by kackling girls while I tried on x amount of dresses and only purchased the one I saw in the window.

                                                 

4. JULIA LOVES LOVES LOVES ANIMALS and BABY and LIFE!
So she adopted Dottie the Daschund at Cracker Barrel then fell in love with Boxer the Dog when we stuffed him Bears on the Beach. Yes they are both stuffed animals but they do bark and Dottie even moves. Then on the beach she tried to chase a bird...those darn legs couldn't crawl fast enough. She goes crazy over dogs/cats/commercials with dogs and cats....so I've made the decision to find her a furry friend. Oh and we can't forget Baby. She's become so nurtuting to Baby and even checks on her when strolling with her. We won't think about all of the things she throws on Baby's head though...her stroller is also her basket to hoarde things.
First day at the beach and trying to make friends.
That's Dottie playing in the sand with Julia. Photos from the shoot with Julia (by me of course) will come later.
5. I AM BLESSED BEYOND WORDS!
This was taken by a lady who was there celebrating her 10 year anniversary. I look forward to the day.
                                      

I will add more images over the week with little snipits behind each story but these are just some of my favorite memories from the week.

Saturday, July 3, 2010

Six Words

So as I have shared bits and pieces of my journey into motherhood through this blog, I have found that this is not only a way for me to release my joys, my fears, my milestones, my frustrations, but also an actual journal that other moms can relate to. Some of you have commented on the blog, privately messaged me and those close to me have dialed up my number and we've laughed and cried together. So tonight here is another entry I hope I'm not alone in writing. I hope that these words I type are words other moms feel because if I'm alone in this, I don't want to face that.

Let me preface with I love being a mommy. I love sweet Julia. She is a light in my life that I never knew existed. She has given me more strength in finding my true self than she will ever know. Her sweet giggles are intoxicating to me and her smile is etched in my mind forever. However, and here comes those six words I can be judged in everyway possible for saying -

I need a break from being a mommy.

The constant whining from a teething girl, the crying b/c she's figured out that can sometimes get her what she wants, the not caring what I look like b/c no one sees me behind a baby dressed in pink and bows, the constant waking up (have I even had REM sleep in months), the worrying if I'm doing the right thing to meet her milestones, juggling sippy cups in hopes of finding the right one, the passing of my husband in the hall without exchanging a word due to exhaustion or somewhere to be, the dreading of nap time b/c there are going to be tears shed - by both of us, the yearning for the last 5 lbs to just fall off, the interrruptions in doing what I'm intently doing b/c of a crying baby, never finishing a task....I need a break.

No one but a mom (maybe even a SAHM can only understand it) can understand these words that I shout in private b/c no one else lives and breathes the same thing day in and out. My home is my office and I never leave my office it seems. In the recent Sex in the City movie Charlotte had to hide in the closet b/c it just got to be too much....we have to hide our frustrations in the closet b/c it seems expressing them will only bring us shame. I even feel shameful by saying it.

So I need a break...a weekend away - sans Julia. Maybe even sans the husband. Maybe just me. Maybe a girlfriend to drink martinis with and throw glitter in the air (takes me to a time I put glitter on my body to go out - ahhh memories) .

Julia is 11 months old!

One more month and that tiny little baby girl I brought home on August 2, 2009 will be 1! I've been busy planning her first birthday party while she tears through the house like a hurricane. She's into everything - cabinets, drawers, stairs, baskets, dirt, toilets....if she can get to it she's adventuring into it. She is such an outgoing little lady with such an adventurous spirit. She's starting to teethe so that has turned into a different little girl. She's still an all around happy little girl (on her good days) but on teething days - wow. She can be persistent when she wants you. She's still has her adventurous spirit and at Gymboree I'm still the mom trying to keep up with the little girl who has no interest in sitting in my lap but instead wants to pull out her own parachute or discover a new way to play with something. She's a unique little firecracker and I love it alll....except for the night wakings.

What She's Doing Now:
teething (4 at once)
standing from sitting unassisted
can climb entire set of stairs
recognizes the words open and close
will take 4-6 steps at times
eating mainly adult food
bounces the ball
clapping
responds to music with waving hands and bouncing up and down
3 bottles a day - getting ready to start milk
still no sippy cup success but practicing with straws
puts away blocks and some other toys
watches "Sesame Street" and responds to what she sees
watching Sesame Street - Mr. Noodle you're so funny
shakes head "no" when she doesn't want something
sleep schedule has shifted - waking up middle of night again
cries to get what she wants - it finally began:-()
no longer goes into her crib without a fight

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Blessed

So tonight as I was giving Julia her bottle before she went to bed I found myself thinking about sitting in her nursery a year ago. Then I was miserably pregnant and just anxious to meet the little one...all I wanted was to get her out. I folded clothes repeatidly and reorganized so it would be perfect. Now she has arrived and even at the end of a day filled with persistent whining (three teeth are breaking through at once) and nothing making her happy, I find myself so blessed to have such a beautiful girl that now plays and laughs in that nursery. She finds such comfort in her nursery. The nursery that I worked so hard on to make perfect by having everything perfectly placed and organized now looks perfect when she has toys strown from one end to the other or when tiny (but getting larger) baby clothes are stacked on the dresser and not in the closet. I mean for three days the baby monitor, still plugged in and working perfectly, was in her waste basket from her getting wild on the changing table. The blankets aren't stacked and folded neatly but instead wadded up in her crib for her to snuggle up to.

It's crazy to think how one year can change your perspective in so many ways. Not only do I look the whole clean/organize thing differently - sure I have my days where I need the house spotless but other days I'm fine that toys are everywhere and laundry needs to be done.Things important now are Julia and having things in my life that fulfill me and give me purpose. Life is so wonderful and tonight as I'm just feeling blessed.

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Teething and Tired

Julia is teething! I know that half the time a baby is upset parents immediately say their baby is teething. I've been guilty of it and apparently my daughter has been teething for 6 months and still no tooth. Well the past two days have been it - REAL TEETHING! The kind that has your 10 month old normally happy and tear free baby balling and screaming! The kind where you look at your baby's pink gums and see two swollen white tinted spots bulging like zits gone wild. The kind where you want to sink away in a dark room with no sound b/c all you've heard all day is shrills, cries, screams and bababababa as she gnaws on her own hand. I feel so sorry for her. She never cries and she has cried non-stop. Let's go ahead and add that she has unfortunately taken on a case of stranger anxiety and seperation anxiety. Maybe the pain of the swollen gums has kicked it in but today I set her down to use the bathroom and you would have thought I sat her on pins and needles. All of this crazy behavior the past two days has just got me thinking again,wanting to vent and letting the exhausting drive me into rant mode.

I know we are all supposed to be supermoms and for us SAHM we're supposed to be able to handle it b/c it's our job right? People in jobs out of the home can't just say they need help or quit at 4:15? Or can they? Yes they can so why can't we? When I was teaching if I needed help I asked another teacher or went to my principal. When I needed to leave early I took personal or sick time. When I had a no-good-horrible day, I knew that it would end at 3pm and I didn't have to see the kids again that day....and if it was really a horrible day I could take a personal day the next day. I sometimes envy the women that leave their house to go to work. Even on Julia's good days, I would like a little break (and if you're reading this saying that is what naps are for then you are obviously not a SAHM b/c we know naps are for mopping, ironing, showering, maybe working out, breathing...those things). Maybe one of those hour long lunches where I shoot the shit and don't have to worry about little hands pulling at my microwaved lasgne....ahhhh the little things. I know it sounds like I'm complaining and maybe I am a little but it's my blog and I can but I just think people view SAHM differently than they should. Unless you've done it you just have no idea what goes into it and it takes out of you. I do get to see my daughter take her first steps (2 steps yesterday in the splash pad - she's def a waterbaby), I get to make my own schedule  - second to Julia's, I get to have sweet hugs and play with her when she wants, I get to teach her interesting stuff and see the amazement in her eyes....yes I get to do all of those wonderful things but I also get looked down on if I say it's overwhelming or hard at times or I need a break from parenting for a few hours or a day...so judge me go ahead. I'm admitting I am not supermom nor I ever will be. I'm tired, exhausted and busy trying to balance SAHM and WAHM with an uncooperative little girl and a husband.

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Grandparents Come to Visit

So this weekend my parents came in for their 6 week visit. Julia is the light of their lives and they make sure that she knows them and I really appreciate that. Growing up I wasn't close to any of my grandparents and I want different for Julia. So thanks Mom and Dad for making sure she knows you and how special she is.

Oh and this was the highlight of the weekend - Julia just falling asleep on Dad. I mean really, I put her on my shoulder and she's a wild woman (unless it's 4 in the morning) but put her head on Grandpa and lights out....many times. I think for 90% of her naps the past four days she slept on his shoulder for up to an hour.

Taking her nap before going to LIlly's first birthday party!

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Dining Room Makeover - on a budget!

Ever since the day we moved in our house two years ago I have hated the barnyard red painted on the dining room walls. I feel it dates the house and it's barnyard red with yellow - I always think of roosters when I see it. Well, I finally did it - I painted the dining room and gave it a face lift while on a budget!
Before

To give the dining room it's facelift,  I  painted, added different artwork, hung some guaze sheers and of course - candles.......and waa - la! A contemporary and relaxing space to enjoy meals with family and friends. Some things I purchased but I reused the rug, candle holder (a glass cake stand) and furniture of course. I also straightened up the built-in cabinet to contain neutral colors only. In order to make the red furniture fit in I used a table runner to break up the color and coordinate with the sheers which I love.
After
So if you do the math I spent a grand total of $188. I purchased some great prints from HomeGoods ( the flower print was a splurge but it had made exact color pallet)  as well as the more expensive sheers from Target - I feel they make the room have that airy feel and they are long enough to give that luxe look. I did save on paint by doing it myself and purchasing bulk white generic candles and a marked down table runner. I also purchased the Target brand hardware which saved me $20. I feel great about this face-life and I now love my dining room! 

Saturday, May 29, 2010

Julia is 10 months old!!

10 months old...bring it on! Waiting on the doctor at her 9 month visit



Two more months and she's 1 year old! It's crazy to think it's been almost a year. This past month has probably been the biggest development wise..atleast what I can see. She's communicating, exploring, crawling, chatting...she's Julia. She's such a unique little girl. She has such an amazing energy that just radiates to everyone. She's happy 99% of the time, she loves to eat, loves to chat, loves to explore, loves to dig in drawers, dig in dirt, make others laugh,

What She's Doing Now:
-pulling up
-standing for about 10 seconds on her own
-crawling , crawling up stairs
-copying Mom and Dad (blows on her food to cool it off - too cute)
-trying to stand up on her own
-moved to Level 3 in Gymboree
-standing and pushing things across floor
-doing the "more" baby sign
-likes to feed herself
-can go to sleep without us having to rock her
-tells me when she's ready to nap by following us around
-eating more table food - loves bananas and mac - n- cheese
-clapping

Feeding herself ham-n-cheese
Happy baby - clapping!
My Little Dirt Dobber
Riding on Daddy's shoulders

Splashpad playdates
9 month photo collage

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Mommy's Day Out

Yesterday was my mommy's day out day - the nanny came over. So I had four hours to me, myself and I. What did I do? First I dropped off some items at the post office. Next, I was then headed to the movies (by myself - yay) and decided to stop and capture the beautiful magnolia blossoms of a tree I pass everyday.
These may be finding their way to my wall.

After my quick-side-of-the-road photoshoot I headed to the movies to see Shrek - The Final Chapter 3D. Yes I can choose a movie to see all by myself and I choose Shrek. I am a sucker for kid's movies. They're so simple and you don't have to overthink it. I can be a kid again by laughing at the silly jokes and besides, today kid's movies have adult inuendos built in Plus, I can not get Jarred to sit and watch a kid's movie and I completely understand. A bonus - I was the only one in the movies! I so look forward to taking Julia She will never have to pull my arm.

After the movies, I deposited a check, picked up groceries and headed back to Mommyland. What a relaxing day. I love being with Julia but I just need "me" time every once in a while. What  a great day!

Saturday, May 22, 2010

I LOVE MY JOBS

I love my jobs - SAHM and photographer. So on rainy days when photographing other people is not in the cards, I recruit my favorite model and we head outside. At this point it had stopped raining but still nasty and muddy. However, the muddier the merrier for Julia. Most of the shoot Julia was in the Bjorn but at the end I took her off and she had a ball. A fun afternoon playing outside...in the mud and muck.

             

Created strictly with my 50mm lens at f1.8.
Only Photoshop used was to vignette and add my logo.

It's a walnut cracked open by our hoard of squirrels but looks like a mini African mask to me.


I love this shot. Probably one of my favorites I've ever taken of her.
A collage of Miss Muddy Adventurer
She does keep me laughing all day long.

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

It's Official - I'm A Small Business Owner

I must say I'm quite proud of myself. In just seven months I have started a business that I can see being really successful one day allowing me to contribute financially to our family. Yesterday I received my business license (the brilliant gov't workers mispelled my name on it but a corrected one is on it's way)  and today I opened my business account. How exciting! I still want it to come second in my life with family being first ( I mean my full time job is SAHM and my part time job is photographer) but since I'm marketing and Jarred has so many financial ventures, I figured the IRS would get me if I didn't make it legal.

I will always owe part of it to my sweet Julia. She's my muse, my inspiration, my model, my practice client. I have always loved photography but if it hadn't been for her birth I would still be a teacher, counting down the days until summer break and wishing I never had to go back. I also have to owe the ability for it to grow so quickly to Jarred's support. He's always just let me pursue different ventures whether they worked or not. He's always had faith in my through this and still supports me to do what I have to do to make this venture successful.

On a side note - It is so crazy to think that exactly one year ago I was expecting Julia in a couple months, counting down the days until school was out and I never had to go back. I had no idea what was coming my way but now that it has arrived I love it!  I spent my day today gardening, dashing Julia around, crawling around chasing her, wrestling a wild little girl to bed, working on business stuff at my own pace and now laying in bed watching TV not dreading tomorrow but looking forward to what great things little Julia will bring.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

Our Lil' Lady

 
Just another day being Julia.
One day she's digging in the dirt and the next she's picking out purses and shoes to match. This so reminds me of a cake topper I had for a birthday cake growing up.

Thursday, May 6, 2010

Somedays I Can Be Superwoman

Woah what a day! Not that it was a bad day but reflecting back it was a crazy, hectic, fun-filled, busy work day here at the McNeal household. Gardening, laughing, crying, singing, shopping, cleaning, napping....

It all started around 2 am when Julia decided to wake up and stay awake for 30 minutes. After settling her down, she woke up again around 5am then up at 8am. I got up, fed her, played with her and managed to get some major internet items checked off my to-do list. Then she was down for a nap at 10:00:-)

Nap times are the time of the day where I can get things done! Some days I choose to work in overdrive (ok, most days) and some days I treat myself to vegging out on the sofa watching Grey's Anatomy or Desperate Housewives. Today was an overdrive day. I cleaned the upstairs bathroom and then I worked outback putting a garden border of plant cover around our new deck. I hoed the dirt, shoveled the dirt, dug in the dirt, planted and mulched. However, I needed more plants and some type of edging. Home Depot was added to our errand list. I came inside with about five minutes to spare and made some business emails and organized files for updating tomorrow.

Around 11:00 Julia woke from her nap. I changed her, put her gardening overalls on her, and fed her. Then off to errands we went! Our first stop - the E.Nashville Post Office. I threw Julia in the Bjorn and dashed in to drop off prints for two of my clients, paperwork for my lawyer for my b.s. lawsuit and Jarred's shoes for return. Julia of course was adored by all in the post office - rattle throwing and all. Back to the car and next stop - gas.

I'm horrible for putting off getting gas until the only place to stop is some crappy hole in the wall. So the first place didn't take debit cards at the pump....ummm I'm not dragging 20 lbs of Julia out to pay so back in the car and off to the next hole in the wall gas station. After a quick swing through the double arches, I stopped at the gas station and pumped. Then off we were for more gardening supplies!!!

This summer I have evolved into a lil' gardener. I shop for flowers at the farmer's market and actually talk about which plants will work and take suggestions. Today was landscaping I guess you could say. So off to Home Depot. Love that place! I had to pick up some more ground cover and edging. Julia as always rode in the cart with her little sun hat on taking in all the sights and touching what she can. She's learning how to garden along with me. So after a 20 minute shopping trip we were back in the car and headed home.

On the way home I even got to talk to Crystal. By the time we got home, Julia was asleep and I was ready to finish my project...yeah, that's an alien concept - finishing a project in one day while keeping up with an engergetic wild 9 month old. I unloaded the car and she woke up. Attempted to put her down for the rest of her nap but unsuccessful:-( We came in, I got her fed and we had an impromptu photo shoot outside in her pettiskirt. Back inside we came and I changed her into her gardening pants so she could crawl around.

We returned outside and she played in the dirt while I gardened. She was a mess! Yes dirt was consumed and mulch was pulled from it's nice new bed by her tiny little curious hands. She's so curious about everything and nothing ever scares her. She goes into any situation with full curiousity and no reservations. I rarely see her get scared of anything - she pets the vacuum. She's a unique little girl with such energy and joy. Once her face, stomach, feet and hands were covered in dirt I took her in the bathe her.

Bath time was quick. She was everywhere! Usually bath time is the pre-bedtime ritual however today was not the case since it was so early. After her bath we jammed out to Dave Matthews upstairs. This sent her into crazy little girl mode. She was grabbing the baby gate shaking it as if she was in jail. However, she was laughing the whole time. She was crawling around the upstairs laughing so hard her eyes started to water. I've never seen a baby laugh like that but she was in a super happy mood. All I could do was laugh with her. She even played hide and seek....sort of. I love when she gets like that where the simplest sound can send her into giggle overdrive. After our giggle fest, we returned downstairs for her dinner of raviolli and a bottle. She then decided she was not ready for bed but instead adventuring. She adventured for 15 minutes, laughing the whole time, while I straightened the house and did a load of laundry. We attempted sleep again and after 15 minutes of attempting realized that it wasn't happening.

Finally around 7 Jarred came home. Phillip, a co-worker/friend that was in town due to the flood came over to visit Julia for the first time. I ordered pizza, finished my project (exluding 2 feet of edging I have to pick up tomorrow) and then finished off the task of putting Julia down after she cried for five minutes. I returned downstairs to eat dinner with the boys, chat it up and then took a shower. Now I'm here updating this blog so Julia will know who I was when she was this age. Plus after being told that I can't handle it all, I wanted to write it down (okay type it out) to really say hey, I did all of this today and I'm going to bed with a smile. I think I can handle it.

Sunday, May 2, 2010

The Great Flood of 2010

As I sit here typing this entry I hear sirens of emergency vehicles racing to rescue someone and see an endless sheet of rain falling outside. It's cold, it's dismal, its insane! We have watched the TV all day. The images are reminiscent of Katrina although this was no hurricane - just a horrible storm that pounded this area for two days. The Cumberland is raising higher, and higher and may hit Broadway - where all the historic honky tonks reside. Every creek, pond, lake, tributary - any body of water - has escaped its banks and flooded the surrounding area. Major roads and interstates (I24, I65, I40) have been shut down in multiple places due to water covering them. Images on the news show buildings floating down the interstate, schools being sucked into sink holes, people being rescued by tiny boats and even horses stranded in the middle of masses of water. It's crazy to think of something like this has hit home. We are so lucky and blessed that our area isn't flooding here in E. Nashville although we are a mile from the Cumberland.

Yesterday on my way back from Carolyn's Birthday Day.  
The Little Harpeth River has turned into a white water river.
The Cumberland flooding it's banks. (Thanks Slattery's for the pic.)

A backyard is turning into a pond...along with my planters.
Having fun inside during the May Day Flood.

"Rain, schmain go away!" shouts Julia.

Saturday, May 1, 2010

Julia is 9 months old!

So she's now been out of me as long as she was in me. It's crazy to think that this time last year I was so large and ready for school to end so I could prepare for her arrival. Now she's crawling and climbing, putting her two cents in conversations and helping me burn calories keeping up with her adventuring. She's a healthy and vibrant little girl who's personality is shining! She's outgoing, a social butterfly and loves attention of any kind from anyone - strangers, other kids, adults and of course Mommy and Daddy.
Playing with her BFF Lilly

What She's Doing Now:
                                                                                                               
crawling and oh boy is she fast!
climbing stairs
pulling up on anything and standing
can stand alone for a few seconds
can walk with walker and parent assistance
cruising and going from couch to ottoman
loves climbing through her tunnels
a very curious and observant girl
says multiple consonants and vowels
explores and adventures
makes choices between toys
starting to understand no - stops and thinks before proceeding
says "oma" and "dada"
bangs objects together
goes after things when you hide them
alternates between one and two naps a day
sleeps 11-12 hours a daypicks up food and feeds herselves (sometimes pincer grip)

eating table food of all kinds - not a picky eater at all
3 bottles a day, 2 snacks and 3 meals

Helping mommy plant fllowers....she loves getting dirty.

Walking solo with her walker

One of her favorite things - chasing balls through her tunnel

Cruisin....


Her first Time Climbing Stairs